Julio and Marisela

You’ve heard us talk about Tio Julio before. Julio has been working at Love & Hope for over six years as caregiver for the older boys. A couple years ago, he also took on the position of “Spiritual Director.” As Spiritual Director, Julio organizes devotions with the kids and the staff; he is also in charge of our annual Love & Hope family retreat/camping trip.

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On Valentine’s Day 2016, Julio got married! He met his wife, Maricela, essentially because of working at Love & Hope Children’s Home. Maricela attended the same church as the Love & Hope kids when we lived in Los Planes de Renderos. Many of the kids and staff attended the wedding to celebrate with them.

Last year, Love & Hope Children’s Home found itself in need of a new caregiver for the “little” boys (they aren’t so little anymore!). The leadership had the idea to approach Julio and Maricela about the job. Would they be willing to work together as “parents” with the boys? Julio and Maricela took the decision very seriously and considered working together at Love & Hope Children’s Home much more a mission than a job. After much prayer and contemplation, Maricela accepted the position!

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We think it is important for the Love & Hope kids to see Godly married couples around them. The cool thing is that we’ve watched Julio and Maricela get to know each other, fall in love, get married, and now, find mission and obey God together. We like to think we are giving them good practice for parenthood!

Please pray for Julio, Maricela, and the rest of our staff as they care for the Love & Hope kids.

Salvador’s Night Out

A couple of weeks ago, Salvador brought home a very special invitation. He was invited to the quinceañera of his friend from school! He was ecstatic and carried around the invitation (a little gold paper box) for a few days. When we saw that the invitation was for “Salvador and family,” we joked with him that EVERYONE was going to go with him, the entire Love and Hope family. He didn’t think that was a very good idea.

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This past Saturday, the big day finally arrived! Salvador decided to take Linda, his sister, and Kirsten along with him to the party. Esau loaned Chamba a nice shirt and Tio Roberto helped him get ready, do his hair, and put on some cologne.

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At the quinceañera, Salvador, as always, was a dance machine. He only stopped dancing to eat! It’s almost as if he literally can’t resist a good rhythm. The great thing about Salvador (also sometimes not such a great thing) is that he has no inhibitions. Dancing alone on the dance floor is no problem for him! Salvador also had a great time with his friends from school. They danced, played and talked the entire evening! Overall, the quinceañera was a great experience for Salvador!

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Salvador also has a tendency to lose or ruin things. So, in an effort to teach him a little responsibility, his caregivers helped him save his allowance to buy a new air pump that he had broken and fork he had lost. When he got back from the mall on Tuesday this week, he was very proud that he had been able to replace the items with his own money!

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We can not imagine Love & Hope Children’s Home without Salvador. He brings so much joy to the house and makes us laugh a lot. Sure, it’s not so nice when he wants to lay a refried-bean-kiss on our cheek at dinner time, but it’s the thought that counts. It is awesome to see how the other Love & Hope kids go out of their way to give him a little attention, or how they seek him out to play, knowing he will always be willing.

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Summer Vacation Fun

Here in El Salvador, the school year ends in mid-November every year. When the kids start up again in January, they begin a new grade with new teachers. Right now, the Love & Hope kids are enjoying their “summer” vacation. We wanted to share what we’ve been doing so far this “summer” break to bat away those summer blues and complaints of “I’m bored!”

Love & Hope Children’s Home has had an ongoing relationship with the United States Navy, which has a base here in El Salvador. The sailors come periodically to visit Love & Hope, have done projects here, and in December, they invited us to their base at the airport! This was our third time to visit their base, but every time has been just as exciting as the last and we learn a lot. The sailors gave us a tour of the base, explained their work in El Salvador, and allowed us to board one of their planes to look around (and play with the radios). Later, they hosted a pizza lunch and gave every one of the kids a Christmas present! We finished the morning by playing games: sack races, egg races and soccer. The Love & Hope kids had so much fun!

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Every year Love & Hope Children’s Home hosts a “family reunion” for the biological families of our children. This year, as in most years, we went to the beach! Many of the Love & Hope kid’s parents and siblings came along. We all played on the beach and in the pool, had a delicious lunch and the Love & Hope kids presented gifts to their parents. Each family also received a Christmas basket full of staple foods and treats, and a gift card to the grocery store.

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Christmas is always a flurry of activity at Love & Hope Children’s Home! On Christmas Eve, we did a coloring contest, had visitors come, went to a local community to hand-out gifts, made a craft and went to church. After church we had a huge dinner and desert and watched movies. At midnight, holding to tradition, we did fireworks! After opening gifts on Christmas morning, everyone relaxed for the rest of the day.

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On New Year’s Eve, we had a party with finger foods. The kids even had an impromptu dance party in the dining room after dinner!

Around the house the kids have also been having fun and playing. Several of the kids worked on and finished a 500-piece puzzle. They also never seem to get tired of Perler beads. The older boys have gone on lots of long bike rides to a park in San Salvador and frequent trips are made to the little park by our house. For Christmas many of the kids received Nerf guns which has made for some good Nerf wars around Love & Hope. There is never a lack of playmates at Love & Hope Children’s Home and always someone and something to play with. We’ve even spotted several of the kids pass time by reading!

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In mid-January, it is back-to-school and early mornings. Please pray for the children and young adults as they prepare for a new school year! From Love & Hope Children’s Home, we wish you a Happy New Year!

Third Annual Family Retreat

A few weeks ago, we at Love & Hope Children’s Home embarked on our third annual family retreat. This year, we changed location from the mountains to the beach!

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Tio Julio, who takes charge of the retreat, spent the last few months preparing. He divided out responsibilities among the adults at Love & Hope Children’s Home, planned devotions for the retreat, and had t-shirts made.

While in past years, we have camped in the mountains, this year, everyone stayed at La Tortuga Verde, located right on the Pacific Ocean on Intipuca beach. We had visited La Tortuga Verde before just for the day. Even though it is far, we love it for the shallow water and not-so-strong waves.

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We left for the retreat early on Tuesday morning. Almost every child and staff member went: the whole family! Upon arriving at the beach, we found our accommodations for the night: two huge beach houses on the grounds of La Tortuga Verde with enough room for everyone. The kids and staff were divided up and everyone had a bed. There was even air-conditioning: a real treat!

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Next it was time for devotions. Tio Julio planned two devotions for the trip, based on the theme “Dios tiene el Control,” “God has the Control.” The corresponding Bible verse was Psalm 60:12. It says: “With God we will gain the victory and he will trample down our enemies.”

Later on Tuesday afternoon it was time for team games. This year the group was divided into two teams. They competed in not only physical games, but also thinking games like puzzles, word searches and Sudoku! On the beach, the teams went head-to-head in soccer and frisbee. In the end, the teams were tied and both won a dinner at Pizza Hut for the next week.

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On Wednesday morning, some early risers got up to see the sunrise and walk on the beach. They found so many shells!

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We spent a lot of time swimming in the pools and playing on the beach! La Tortuga Verde even had surf boards we used to play around in the waves. Tio Roberto, who is an avid surfer, tried to teach a couple of the kids to catch some waves during the retreat.

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Around 2:00 pm on Wednesday, we loaded the cars for the long ride home. Everyone was exhausted but happy. These annual retreats are a great time for our kids and staff to build stronger bonds and enjoy fun and spiritual growth together. Our donors and sponsors make events like these possible! Thank you!

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Spiritual Development

Our vision statement says, “Love & Hope Children’s Home cares for orphaned, abused, abandoned, and neglected children by sharing the love of Jesus in a family setting,” and we do our best to provide our kids with opportunities to explore the Christian faith and grow spiritually. That means we work hard at creating an environment and atmosphere of faith, discipleship, and unity. It’s something that doesn’t happen by accident and takes quite a bit of planning and purposeful effort.

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A couple of years ago, one of our caregivers, Julio, stepped into the position of “Spiritual Director.” In this position, he helps cultivate a culture of faith, minister to our staff and children, and also organizes devotionals and retreats.

For a few years now, our staff has enjoyed an annual retreat at the beach. Thanks to some volunteers who “babysit,” they are able to leave the kids behind for a day of fellowship, worship, prayer, and team building. It is a great way to foster unity and friendship among the staff, while also building their faith; in turn, our staff can guide the children and teens at Love & Hope.

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Love & Hope Children’s Home also plans a yearly family retreat which includes all of the kids and staff. For the past two years, the retreat has been held at a camp in the department of Chalatenango, in northern El Salvador. The staff pitches in to prepare meals, play games and lead devotionals. We also have some friendly competition; the kids form teams and compete in games together with a couple staff leaders. The campgrounds also include a high-ropes course, zip-line, and extreme swing that add an extra element of excitement and adrenaline to the weekend. The most important aspect of the retreat is maturing the kids’ relationships with God and strengthening Love & Hope family bonds which we feel has been achieved both years!

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In addition to our own staff, we also look for opportunities for others to share and minister with our children. Twice now, Julio has invited a former gang member from his church to give his testimony to the older children. El Salvador suffers from a major gang and violence problem, which makes the topic particularly relevant. This former gang member has been very gracious and very honest with the kids about his past, his struggles and his road to Christ. Our children were very engaged with his story, and asked a lot questions!

Last year, Love & Hope was visited by Reverend Park, a missionary to El Salvador from South Korea. He has been consistent in bringing us devotional booklets for each child and staff member every month. The books include a passage of scripture and a few questions for every day of the month. The Love & Hope kids read from the book each morning before school. They’re a great and simple way that our children can study the Word together.

On Saturday nights, Julio has arranged for our children to engage in devotions together. The teens gather together with our friend Steve, who leads the time. Steve is a missionary to El Salvador who graciously takes time out of his busy schedule to spend time at Love & Hope. He does a great job of making the devotions relevant and interesting to our teens. Meanwhile, the younger kids also meet together, their caregivers leading them in Bible study.

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Two of our girls have had the awesome opportunity to attend a mission trip to Belize! While there (on separate trips) they mainly ministered to children and did evangelism. Both girls returned to El Salvador with stories to tell and new experiences to share. Two of our staff members, Tio Julio and Suzana, also traveled with the teams to Belize. We are so proud of them for pushing themselves and trying something new; after all, Jesus never said our faith would be comfortable!

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Love & Hope was named so because our number one desire is that our children can know the love of Jesus and experience the hope we have in knowing Him as our personal Lord and savior. We love to see our children make their faith personal, taking ownership of their relationship with Jesus and experiencing true rebirth and hope in Him. Most of our children do not know their earthly, biological fathers, and we pray that they will come to see Jesus as their heavenly father, and themselves as His adopted children. Please pray for our children as they explore their faith, and pray for our staff as they lead our children!

Encouraging the Fine Arts

Love & Hope Children’s Home is blessed to be located in a community with a lot of culture. For example, during Holy Week, our city boasts a huge display of “alfombras” or rugs made out of salt and sawdust. The rugs cover the city streets in vivid color and depict Biblical scenes. There is also a special art and restaurant district in our city that features great food, a few shops and a hostel. On weekends, the streets in this area are closed to allow for foot traffic, street musicians, living statues, and many tents that serve traditional food and sell handicrafts.

Our city also has an awesome fine arts academy which several of our children attend. We now have living at Love & Hope (and soon to be famous), a painter, a guitarist, a pianist and an actress.

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Our artist has created many original paintings. He really has a talent for drawing and painting and is very creative. Apart from his formal art class, he doodles on everything. Many visitors to Love & Hope Children’s Home have taken home his original artwork. To teach him a bit about being an entrepreneur, we made a deal with him that he can sell his paintings to visitors, but he has to buy his own supplies!

Love & Hope’s resident guitarist has been learning for over a year now, after a very kind couple recognized her interest and sent her a beautiful Fender guitar. Even though her progress is slow, she loves going to lessons and practicing at home!

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We’ve all been very impressed at how fast our pianist has learned. He already had his first recital and a few months ago even performed for the mayor of our town at the inauguration of the Academy of Fine Arts! After seeing how dedicated he was to learning the piano, we bought him a small keyboard to practice on at home. He has also tried to compose his own songs…a master in the making. Click here to see a video: video-1472497519.

One of our girls recently began a theater class. For a girl that loves to talk, it was the perfect fit! Sometimes, she breaks out in her warm-up enunciation exercises at home. She and her classmates are currently deciding which play to practice and perform. We can’t wait to see what they come up with!

We love that several of our kids have embraced the fine arts. All four are very motivated and very talented and we can’t wait to see where their newly acquired skills take them!

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Sibling relationships are very special; anyone with a brother or sister knows this. Brothers and sisters are your first playmates and first best friends. Sure, siblings fight and bicker, but when it comes down to it, they also take care of and defend each other; they laugh and learn together.

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The majority of the children and young adults at Love & Hope Children’s Home have biological siblings also living in our home. Many also have biological siblings who do not live with us. Either way, they all share a very special bond with their family members. We love to watch them take care of each other.

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During “sleepovers” in our dining room on special occasions, many of the siblings choose to sleep next to each other, arranging their mattresses so that they are as close as possible to their brother or sister.

A couple of the older girls sometimes ask how their younger siblings are doing in school. After we receive grades for their little brothers, they want to know how they did, concerned as we are for their success at school!

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Our kids constantly share food with their brothers and sisters. If one of them gets to go out to lunch or dinner, they sometimes save just a little bit to take home and give to their waiting sibling. When someone has a bag of chips, the first person they seek out to share with is their sibling. Often when they have extra money to spend, they first think of their brother or sister while buying a snack at the tienda or pupusas for dinner.

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One very special relationship that we have had the pleasure to observe for a long time, is the relationship that our twins share. Besides the different schools they attend (and that was a BIG change), the twins are ALWAYS together, inseparable. They don’t fall asleep on each others’ shoulders or walk arm-in-arm as much as they used to, but they do dress similarly, like the same things, and share the same sense of humor; they make us laugh a lot.

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Many of our kids also have siblings that live with their biological families. They see these brothers and sisters from time-to-time at family visits and you would never know that they live apart. They seem to start the visit right where they left off on the last visit: talking, laughing, playing. Younger brothers and sisters that live with their biological families are always excited to see their older siblings. It is wonderful!

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We at Love & Hope Children’s Home also do what we can to strengthen relationships between the sibling groups that live at our home. Every Sunday, a group goes out to lunch after church together. Rachel and Justin have also had family dinners during the week, inviting one group of siblings at a time to eat at their house. Occasionally, some kids even go home to visit their biological families for a night or two.

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Our hope is that our children would also accept their Love & Hope family as their family. Many of them do, especially as they have gotten older. Our older girls, for example, are very close. They have overcome many obstacles together, shared happy moments, shared sad moments, fought, made-up, played, encouraged and loved each other. Rachel has a frame in her house with the quote: “The bond that links your true family is not blood but of respect and joy in each other’s life.” We certainly feel that our children and teens are learning to do this. Our kids have grown-up together and they live life together. That’s what siblings are, right?

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Fun at the Courtyard Marriott

This past Wednesday, Love & Hope Children’s Home received a special invitation from the Courtyard Marriott Hotel in San Salvador! We were told to be there at 3:00 pm, ready to swim, but other than that we didn’t know what to expect.

We were so excited and surprised to find that the employees of the hotel had set up a carnival in the garden of the hotel. They had several games and lots of prizes for our kids. Better yet, the employees were welcoming and encouraging, calling the kids over to play, cheering them on and greeting them by name.

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Later, the kids were allowed to get in the pool. They loved it and played for a long time. Some of the prizes they won doubled as pool toys.

The hotel also served a “snack.” They gave everyone a hot dog, homemade potato chips and cake! It was delicious.

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Last, everyone got a shirt and we took a picture. Before leaving the hotel, the employees passed out a special gift to each one of the kids: a new shirt from a local department store. Chamba was so excited and went to put his on right away.

All-in-all, it was a great afternoon. We felt so very loved and encouraged by the time and thought put into the party. It was obvious that all of our kids and teens enjoyed the afternoon. Thank you, Courtyard Marriott!

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Happy Mother’s Day

Just as it is all over the world, Mother’s Day is a big deal in El Salvador! This special day is always celebrated on May 10th, so this year it was last Tuesday.

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13262262_849307840231_1204889097_oWe’ve all heard the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” At Love & Hope Children’s Home, we have found that to be very true. Our children have been under the loving care of so many amazing men and women, some who have been working at Love & Hope longer than some of the children have been alive! Naturally, our kids then come to see Rachel and the staff as mother and father figures.

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Rachel has been called “mami” by the kids practically since Love & Hope’s doors opened almost 13 years ago. She witnessed their first steps, first words and first days of school. Rachel remembers and loves to tell the kids what clothes they were wearing the first time they met. She helps with homework and goes to as many of their games, appointments, concerts and performances as possible. Rachel listens to them, advises them and cries with them. She is their mom in every sense of the word.

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Several of our “tias” have their own biological children, but that doesn’t stop them from stepping into Love & Hope Children’s Home and loving our children as their own. These women have become confidants, teachers, playmates, friends and authority figures to our kids. It is easy to see their the love and care they offer our children and teenagers is sincere and pure. They love and enjoy our children despite every difficult moment they encounter. The relationships our tias share with the kids really are special; because our children spend so much time with our caregivers, our staff knows our kids on a very deep level.

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We’ll finish with Michell’s message to Rachel on Mother’s Day. She said it perfectly! Mothers certainly are very special people, biological or not.

“Happy Mother’s Day. I couldn’t imagine my life without you. God gave me the best mother. I know that I never was in your belly but God had a plan with you and me. God made me come into your life. You are always going to be my mother because you saw me and you are going to keep watching me growing up and reaching my goals. You’ll always be by my side no matter what I do. Thanks for everything you do and for making me happy. I’m very thankful and happy with you. You are a blessing in my life. Thanks for supporting me and encouraging me. I want you to be there for all of my successes; you always give me strength and make me be a better person.”

Happy Mother’s Day!

(Most of photos from this blog were taken at the special events that the kids participated in at school to celebrate Mother’s Day and our own celebration with the staff at Love & Hope Children’s Home.)

Lessons from S

S seems to show up in our Instagram and Facebook feeds more than any other child here at Love & Hope Children’s Home. It is because of his wonderful and crazy personality, funny stories and great photos. S is so unique and special; he brings joy to all of our lives here.

S has friends all over the place. Here is a common scenario: we are walking through the grocery store with S. From behind us we hear, “Hi S!” We say “Hi!” S smiles. Then we (the adults) timidly ask, “Sorry, how do you know S?” They explain and we have an epiphany moment. Seriously, this has happened many times. Everywhere we go, S knows someone.

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He also understands a lot of English. S will never respond in English, but we have to be careful about what we say in English in front of him. At times he has surprised us with his understanding.

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S is a dancer. From the time he was little, he could pick out a good beat. And he isn’t ashamed to let loose and dance in front of anyone. We recently went to a wedding and S danced for about two hours straight. Really, he didn’t stop, and we were all wondering where all that energy came from. Even when it was time to eat, he sat in his seat, bouncing up and down. He didn’t care what everyone else thought, and he also got the other little boys dancing too.

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One of our friends once said that S is Love & Hope’s “Welcoming Party.” So true. He is the first to greet and play with visitors, opening his heart to new people immediately. S puts up no walls, and his is the first name that our visitors learn. He loves the attention and loves to play.

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Sometimes S gets upset. But, his bad mood only lasts minutes. Then, he comes up (many times without any prompting) to say sorry. “I need to ask you something. I need to ask for forgiveness.” Then S gives the sweetest hug and kiss you’ve ever had. The way that S can set aside his pride or stubbornness and ask for forgiveness with such sincere humility amazes us every time.

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For the last year or so, S has been talking to us about a classmate at school. “G is my girlfriend.” “G did this or that.” “I’m going to marry G.” We teased S about G, listened to him talk about her, etc., but we had never met her. Then at a school talent show, S pointed her out to us. One thing he had never mentioned about G? She uses a wheelchair. We were astounded. Maybe S doesn’t notice the wheelchair at all, or to him, it just doesn’t matter, it isn’t even worth mentioning. S is too preoccupied with the beautiful person in the wheelchair to pay any attention to the wheelchair.

S teaches us a lot: forgiveness, inclusion, how to laugh, how to be a free spirit. He really is an amazing kid!